If there is one thing I’ve recognized (and I’m sure at some point along the way you have too) it’s that building together is not for the faint of heart ! There are seasons that seem to take every ounce of our strength and then some.
Seasons change. The ease and difficult was of those seasons can ebb and flow , however we can chose what we build our foundation on , we can chose to lean on every promise of God to get us through and build different along the way .
We can lean on His word to be our constant .
Here is one :
The joy of the Lord is our Strength.
Feeling weary and weak ?
Tap into joy.
Joy isn’t a feeling , though we have been taught that. We don’t think our way into joy. According to the Bible, Joy is a fruit of the Spirit ( Galatians 5:22). It’s an attribute of God and we can chose Joy when we:
1.Dwell in his presence 🙏🏽( make it a priority to spend time in His presence but reading , praising, praying, meditating on his word )
2.Praise Him🙌🏽…God dwells in the praises of his people. What can you thank and praise God for today?
3.Laugh 😆..laughter is medicine. Allow yourself play this weekend and cultivate laughter with your partner.. pick the funny movie, family game night, a fun date night, joke around (with love of course lol )
“A joyful heart is good medicine, but a broken spirit dries up the bones”- Proverbs 17:22
4. Are obedient to the Spirit by learning and living by the Word of God 🤍 “Joyful are those who obey his laws and search for him with all their hearts” Psalm 119:2
Protect your Joy, tap into Joy more and remember Joy gives us STRENGTH for the journey, and real Joy, only is found in Jesus.
Peggy Ruth Joyce explained that in the Old Testament when there were battles the troops would send out the singers and praises before them ..as this would help the soldiers begin to sing and praise before fighting , knowing that it built a mental/emotional and even physical strength.
A helpful reframe may be that joy isn’t a fleeting feeling brought on by close to perfect or enjoyable circumstances …JOY is a posture , a fruit of the spirit , and a choice that blesses our spirits and our relationships.
How will you raise up joy within you today ?
What can you praise God for today ?
Talk to your partner about cultivating more joy together and encouraging each other to do so.